I shouldn’t actually be good at what I do.
But I’m actually great at it.
(And I know you’re just as incredible at what you do too — I’ll help you know it.)

I used to be one of the shyest people you could meet.

I was bullied as a kid starting from Year 3 (age 7), then again in Year 5.
Man… girls can be mean.

So from a young age, I believed I wasn’t good enough.

Then in secondary school I was told I was ugly and fat.
(They weren’t wrong after all the emotional eating I did after school.)

I learned to walk with my head down.
I didn’t believe I’d amount to anything.

I hated school — yet somehow decided to follow my mum’s path and become a primary school teacher.

And I was good at it. I really cared.
I wanted other kids to have a better experience than I had.
I could explain things in a way children truly understood.

I was rated ‘Outstanding’ by OFSTED inspectors.

I thought, that’s it.
I’d found my thing. I could finally be happy.

But… life had other plans.

WHEN EVERYTHING STOPPED

I developed ME/CFS — a debilitating illness that meant I couldn’t work full time.

I’d started using clothes as a kind of armour.
A way to feel better.
A way to give myself just enough courage and energy to face the day.

And it worked.

I needed a way to supplement my part-time teaching income, so I took the leap and trained to be a Personal Stylist.

(Yes I can totally see the irony now!)

I wanted to help other women feel better about themselves.
But I completely underestimated what it took to actually get clients and run a business.

For someone who was unbelievably self-conscious about the way she looked, I couldn’t have chosen a worse industry.

The thought of networking brought me out in hives.
The idea of recording a video made me want to vomit.

Yet somehow I expected clients to magically show up.

Spoiler: they didn’t.

I doubted my ability.
I still felt ugly.
I didn’t want people looking at me.

Honestly?
The WORST industry I could have chosen. (Laughy face.)

THE SHIFT

So I finally did the thing I’d avoided my whole life.

I worked on myself.

Properly.

I dug deep into how I felt about myself and transformed my crippling low self-esteem.

I read loads of books.
I hired a coach.
I trained in EFT.

And it worked.

I started saying yes to things I’d never have dreamed of doing before:

– Speaking on BBC radio
– Approaching high-street stores to run workshops
– Speaking on any stage that would have me
– Being a guest speaker for large charities
– Recording videos

And that’s when I realised something huge.

It was never about the clothes.
Not for me. Not for my clients.

It was about empowering the woman wearing them.

I saw incredible, talented, capable women — women who had hired me — who still didn’t feel confident enough to wear the clothes they wished they could.

That’s when I trained to be a confidence coach.

Me.
The girl who once couldn’t hold her head up high.

Helping other women do exactly that.

THIS IS WHERE YOU COME IN

If any part of my story feels familiar, it’s probably because you’ve lived your own version of it.

Maybe you weren’t bullied —
but you learned early on to stay quiet, stay small or not rock the boat.

Maybe you didn’t get ill —
but you’ve felt burnt out, stuck or quietly frustrated despite “doing all the right things”.

You know there’s more for you.
You can feel it.

And yet…
you hesitate.
You overthink.
You wait to feel “ready”.

That’s the moment I step in.

WHAT I ACTUALLY HELP WITH

I don’t give you a personality transplant. Because you don’t need one!
Promise.

I help you get out of your own way.

We work on:
– the self-doubt that keeps stopping you
– the fear that makes you over-prepare instead of act
– the invisible brakes you keep pressing without realising

So you can finally move — in life, in business and in how you show up.

Most of my clients don’t need more strategy.
They need someone in their corner helping them back themselves.

That’s my zone.

Because when you’ve been there, you get it — in a way nobody else can.

I know how to pinpoint someone’s weak spots and gently coax them out of themselves, so they can show up in a BIG way.

Because you were never meant to settle.
Not in your career.
Not in your business.
Not in dating.
Not in life.

IS THIS FOR YOU?

This work is for you if:

– You’re capable as hell but don’t fully trust yourself yet
– You care deeply about what you do
– You know you’re meant for more, but keep holding back
– You’re ready to take action — even if it feels scary

You don’t need fixing.
You don’t need to become someone else.

You just need support to take the next brave step.

LET'S BOOK A CALL TO TALK ABOUT HOW I CAN HELP