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WHAT'S YOUR WORD OR THEME OF THE YEAR (+ 167 IDEAS)

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WHAT'S YOUR WORD OR THEME OF THE YEAR (+ 167 IDEAS)

Have you heard the concept of picking a word or theme for the year? The idea is that you choose one word that sums up your goals and dreams for the next 12 months.

Having one word means you have an overarching focus for the year ahead. It’s like setting an intention for what you want to be, do, have and create.

The word can be a value or a feeling.

Then when you make decisions, you can think about whether it aligns with what you really want

I’ve chosen VIBRANT for 2023.

My Word/Theme Of The Year for 2023

I felt run down over the Christmas period (as many of us did) so I wanted to have a word that felt the opposite of the meh feeling that seemed to hang over me for most of December.

I’ve always loved the energy of the New Year though and I was ON IT when it came to 1st Jan. We’ve been painting rooms, ordering furniture, decluttering, making big decisions in my business, planning, starting up hobbies again.

I don’t want this to be a ‘January thing’. I want to keep this energy all year long. So VIBRANT was the word that stuck.

To me ‘VIBRANT’ means:

  • Feeling energised.

  • Feeling ALIVE!

  • Waking up feeling excited

  • Feeling excited.

  • Moving in a way that makes me feel healthy.

  • Eating food that really nourish me.

  • Fresh air.

  • Nature.

  • People that energise me.

  • Activities that energise me.

  • Following my dreams.

  • And by the looks of my mini mood board…the beach!

It crosses into every area of my life. I’m excited to keep working on and feeling vibrant in my business, relationships, health, home and life.

NOT SURE WHICH WORD TO CHOOSE?

I’VE CREATED A LIST TO HOPEFULLY INSPIRE YOU.

 

  1. Achieve

  2. Action

  3. Adventure

  4. Align

  5. Appreciate

  6. Authentic

  7. Balance

  8. Begin

  9. Belong

  10. Bloom

  11. Bright

  12. Build

  13. Calm

  14. Clear

  15. Commit

  16. Compassion

  17. Completion

  18. Confidence

  19. Connection

  20. Consistency

  21. Courage

  22. Create

  23. Creative

  24. Daring

  25. Dedicated

  26. Delight

  27. Devote

  28. Discipline

  29. Dream

  30. Embody

  31. Empower

  32. Encourage

  33. Energy

  34. Enthusiasm

  35. Excite

  36. Expansion

  37. Experience

  38. Express

  39. Faith

  40. Fit

  41. Focus

  42. Forgiveness

  43. Free

  44. Friendship

  45. Fun

  46. Gentle

  47. Give

  48. Glow

  49. Go

  50. Gracious

  51. Gratitude

  52. Grounded

  53. Happy

  54. Heal

  55. Health

  56. Heart

  57. Honesty

  58. Hope

  59. Humility

  60. Imagine

  61. Inspire

  62. Integrity

  63. Intent

  64. Intentional

  65. Intimate

  66. Journey

  67. Joy

  68. Jump

  69. Kind

  70. Knowledge

  71. Laughter

  72. Lead

  73. Learn

  74. Less

  75. Listen

  76. Live

  77. Love

  78. Magical

  79. Magnify

  80. Manifest

  81. Mindful

  82. Moment

  83. Move

  84. Natural

  85. New

  86. Nourish

  87. Now

  88. Nurture

  89. Observe

  90. Open

  91. Organic

  92. Organise

  93. Passion

  94. Patience

  95. Peace

  96. Permission

  97. Perspective

  98. Playful

  99. Positive

  100. Possible

  101. Power

  102. Presence

  103. Preserve

  104. Progress

  105. Prosperous

  106. Proud

  107. Purpose

  108. Queen

  109. Question

  110. Quiet

  111. Radian

  112. Receive

  113. Reflect

  114. Release

  115. Renew

  116. Resolve

  117. Respect

  118. Rest

  119. Retreat

  120. Revive

  121. Rise

  122. Risk

  123. Romance

  124. Self

  125. Self-care

  126. Self-love

  127. Share

  128. Shine

  129. Simplify

  130. Slow

  131. Soul

  132. Sparkle

  133. Spirit

  134. Still

  135. Strength

  136. Success

  137. Support

  138. Surrender

  139. Teach

  140. Thoughtfulness

  141. Thrive

  142. Tranquil

  143. Transform

  144. Travel

  145. Trust

  146. Truth

  147. Understand

  148. Unique

  149. Unlimited

  150. Unstoppable

  151. Value

  152. Vibrant

  153. Vision

  154. Vitality

  155. Vulnerable

  156. Wake

  157. Wander

  158. Wellness

  159. Whole

  160. Wholehearted

  161. Worthy

  162. YES!

  163. Yourself

  164. Youth

  165. Zealous

  166. Zen

  167. Zest

Have you decided on your word/theme of the year YET?

I’d love to know what it is. Let me know in the comments below.

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FACEBOOK LIVE TIPS

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FACEBOOK LIVE TIPS

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BECOME A LIVESTREAMING CLIENT MAGNET WITH FACEBOOK LIVE

Someone asked me for some tips on doing their first Facebook Live tonight so I thought I wanted to share them with you too.

1) Set up a group and go and practise in it so you know how to turn it on and off and ensure the lighting and background are good. 

2) Practise an opening line so you start off confidently as soon as you see you’re ‘on air’.

3) Map out an opener, your main content and a call to action at the end.

4) Wear something you feel confident in. 

5) Put your main points on post-its right next to your phone so they are easy to see and you don’t forget any of your key points.

6) Make sure you look INTO the camera and not at yourself. This is better for the viewer because you’ll be looking at them and also for you because it will remind you that you’re doing this for the people watching.

7) If you forget what you’re talking about don’t worry about it...just say that and laugh. That will bring your brain out of the freeze and you’ll seem real and authentic.

8) Have fun. This doesn’t need to be perfect. My first Facebook Live lasted 4 mins because I was so nervous  but it gets easier and now I really enjoy them. 

9) And remember this...only people who are pushing themselves out of their comfort zone and therefore growing that experience nervous and stage fright. So it’s a great sign if you’re feeling a bit nervous.

WATCH THE VIDEOS BELOW FOR more tips:


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FREE FACEBOOK LIVES WEBINAR:

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HOW TO GET OVER FEAR OF SUCCESS

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HOW TO GET OVER FEAR OF SUCCESS

HOW TO GET OVER FEAR OF SUCCESS

Fear of success is very common and that’s because fearing change is what our brains are wired to do. You are literally going against your internal programming and survival instincts when you set new and big goals. 

So don’t beat yourself up about it but yes, you do need to work through it otherwise it will always feel like you have one foot on the accelerator and the other on the break the whole time your run your business. 

Finish the sentence (below) as many times as you can until you have written everything your brain can think of. 

I am scared to be a success in case/because…

Give your brain the time to share. It's trying to be heard and when we try to think positively over it without letting it speak, it just gets louder!

And your subconscious mind (where this fear comes from) is FIVE TIMES MORE POWERFUL than your conscious mind anyway so you'll be fighting a losing battle if you try to ignore it and its fears. 

Then take each answer and write out 3 reasons why that isn’t actually true/fact (or as they say...absolute BS). 

For example:
I am scared to be a success in case I get trolled on the internet.

The 3 reasons why this is BS are:

  1. People will say things whether I’m being successful or not. A troll will always be a troll so I can stay small or go big. It's about them, not ME. They'll just troll someone else if I'm staying small and not being seen. 
  2. I might NEVER even get trolled anyway and I’m stopping myself from doing what I love to protect myself from something that may NEVER happen. 
  3. The people whose opinions I really value will want me to be a success. 

do this for EVERY sentence you wrote out. Coach yourself through it. 

Once you have done that...

imagine you're 90 sitting on your sofa and you look back and REALISE you never went for your dreams.

Write about how you feel. It's good if this feels painful. We are trying to change the what your brain links pain (aka fear) to.

You will ALWAYS have fear. We can’t get rid of that - but we can use it to our advantage. 

This is not just about 'feel the fear and do it anyway', it’s about changing that fear to be the FEAR OF NOT GOING FOR IT. 

After that amp up the excitement of the results you want.

But do the other exercises first and your brain will accept them and get excited too.

Try this and let me know in the comments below how differently you feel about creating success in your business and going NEXT LEVEL. 

Emma xx


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